MY SON´S BIRTHDAY

I always thought his birthday wasn´t always at the right moment. We didn´t know if we should celebrate his birthday or his grandmother which is 3 days before his. Besides, Halloween is all around those days, and he´s not so fond of those decorations, full of spider and their webs. C. hates spiders more than anything else in the entire universe.

You have to add that my dad passed away two days after his ninth birthday, so for a few years we didn´t feel like celebrating anything around his anniversary.

If I had to throw him a party, like I did to his sister two or three posts ago, you´d probably found:

A nun.....

And another nun

He has never been fond of wearing those fancy dresses, I think his sister and I should be blamed for this, probably because my daughter thought instead of having a brother, she had a little doll she could dress up to her taste. His first fancy dress was the same she wore for the first time too. She thought it was a great idea to dress her little brother as a female mouse.

The truth is that she´s been always present in his life......

Showing him how to behave in certain situations.......

Being really supportive in the most stressful moments during his first year.... He felt quite confident having her by his side....

Still, he wasn´t fond of fancy dresses at all.....

Though he was secure in his daylife routines.....

There were terrible moments in his life that were really difficult to cope with.....

Later...he started to feel really confident around his playmates...hmmm, too confident I´d say.....

But his sister is his sister and she was always there to give him support and guidance....what she got from him, well she always had a blast and laughed a lot...he´s fun.